“The only way to know what you like is through experimentation. And hell, you may end up with another go-to on your sexual roster. You don’t have to break out the e-stim gear (unless you want to)-pretty much anything new will do the trick.
Why? Well, the process of navigating a new, wild style of sex is a uniquely intimate bonding experience that can bring you closer in every sense of the word.” (The slightly intimidating part is actually pretty key here bc there’s evidence that higher anxiety can lead to heightened sexual attraction.) “A quick and very fun way to shake off some of that monotony is to explore a sex position that seriously excites you…and slightly intimidates you. “It’s no secret that cycling through the same sex positions over and over again can (and usually does) make things feel a little stale,” says queer sex educator Sarah Riccio, cofounder of Delicto. However…sometimes you need a little something different. Yes, missionary, doggy, woman-on-top-all those positions are fantastic, and that’s why they’ve stayed in heavy rotation since forever.
